All right folks, it's just human nature to have one or more
sexual turn-ons or fetishes if you will, so don't ever be
ashamed of yourself for having a healthy interest in sex,
fulfillment, gratification or even breeding. Were it not so,
the human race would be an endangered species. Male
animals mostly rut to the aroma of female estrus. That is,
of course, the pungent scent given off by females in heat
when their vaginas blossom, and they are ripe for the cause.
Female birds are attracted to the bright and fancy plumage
of male birds and so on. Each species has its own sexual
wake-up call and time for mating. Even certain actions or
mating behaviors when the time is right can incite burning
sexual interest in a potential mate.
However, humans are a bit more complex. There are no
special times for Homo sapiens. Sex is all in the mind. Isn't
that wonderful? Right, we can get it on right proud
whenever or wherever we happen to be in the mood. That
applies to both males and females. You guys who think
men are the only ones who get horny need to wake up and
smell the pheromones! The ladies are more often as hot if
not hotter than men, and most have quite an arsenal of
sexual fetishes, paraphernalia or toys they like to play with
when they are aroused. I knew one snooty old, holier-than-
thou broad who kept a box full of different and multicolor
dildos under her bed. You can bet that truth be known, lots
of stuff turns the ladies on. Humans are wired for
procreation or sex of any kind, even recreational sex.
We can be walking down the street, minding our own
business when we are literally yanked from our
complacency by someone or something that catches our
attention. Sight, sound, scent, tactile touch or even some
inanimate object associated with sexual activity can set us
off and ignite our sexual fires, inciting us to take
appropriate action post haste, assuming we have the nerve
and where-with-all to succeed.
Fact is, many women can be sexually aroused by simply
seeing a well dressed man or a man who sports a nice tight
ass or a hairy chest. Some like strong legs or washboard
abdominal muscles. Some like long hair, pony tails, or
beards. Others warm up to the scent of certain after shave
lotions or colognes. Also, there those who get off on good,
honest sweat. Then too, it's amazing how many women
become aroused by the intelligence and quality of a
potential partner's mind and the words they say to them
during small talk.
After that, it is up to us to take our partners to the next level
of sexual excitement by doing or saying something that
increases their sexual interest and attendant receptivity.
Here is where fetishes and or certain articles or toys can
have an astounding effect, especially when coupled with
particular actions and orations such as talking dirty or
accepting either a master or slave persona as the case
dictates.
Body Fetishes
Men are even more imaginative and diverse by nature, most
rising to the call of sexual excitement with minimal
stimulation. The sight of a shapely leg or foot, breast, or
butt can send libidos soaring. Women play to this end by
dressing for the occasion, wearing sexy clothes that will
attract attention. Short skirts, thongs, thigh-high nylons, 4
inch heals and revealing tops that show the belly button are
common place. Makeup and jewelry also rank highly to
accentuate the positive. Surely you are not so naive as to
think that women dress to pull as many sexual triggers as
possible in order to run potential partners away do you?
So, fetishes are merely sexual triggers used to heighten
sexual interest and excitement that when properly used or
pursued can bring greater satisfaction. There are foot men,
leg men, ass men, tit men and so on. Nowadays, belly
buttons are in vogue, would you believe. More than that,
the methods used to display these turn-ons can produce
profound effects. Feet can be materially enhanced by
donning an assortment of sexy shoes, high heels, rings or
other baubles. Legs can be accentuated by nylons or
strapping that draws attention to them. Breasts can be
made more attractive by special bras or in the case of
strippers, pasties. Often a tank top thin enough to allow
bare nipples to peek through can be exciting as well as
allowing a bit of breast, cleavage or tummy to show. The
effect at times can also be enhanced by carefully chosen
under garments or lingerie.
There are a myriad of sexy under garments used by women
to further the degree of sexual excitement they can induce.
Most of these garments such as Baby Dolls and Teddies are
fabricated from filmy, see-through material which shows
more skin than they hide. Their idea is to have fun and make
themselves more attractive so they can find a mate or get
laid. Of course, we can't forget fads like body painting,
piercing and tattooing which come and go with the times.
Someone, somewhere is always thinking up new or
bringing back old fetishes to add interest to sexual activity.
Toys Are Us!
A fetish might be focused upon the body or body part or the
enhancement of a body part or parts, or it can be focused on
doing something with E, all of the above. Often roll
playing is used to enhance the sexual experience and where
there exists roll playing, there exists also a strong
likelihood of the usage of various props or toys to bring off
the desired heightened effect, resulting in blinding orgasms.
Leather and strapping has been popular since day one,
perhaps, because of its association with the strong, virile
animal who donated it. Of course, some people enjoy
being subjugated at least for a time in the bedroom. Being
totally helpless while their lover has their way with them is
somehow exciting to them and makes them hot. Then too,
subjugating another person can be quite fulfilling to their
partner, so all is fair in love and war. Anyway it's fairly
safe to assume that most people who are into leather,
tattoos and piercing possess a heightened sex drive and
could easily be persuaded to unleash it given the right set of
circumstances.
Europeans chuckle at American men because of their breast
fetishes ingrained by a lifetime of movie stars and
advertising, while Latinos are often infatuated by asses or
booty as they call it. Asians are heavily into feet, but
anything is possible. Fetishes are open to the imagination
as beauty is to the eye of the beholder. Happily, no matter
what the fetish, there are enhancements available for even
the most Epicurean or jaded taste, whatever strikes the
fancy. There are bondage devices, clothing, shoes, and
accessories like whips and other flagellation devices,
dildos, rubber, vinyl, cock rings and butt plugs enough to
satisfy most any desire or need. There is also an endless
supply of hardware available for those into serious
S&M/Bondage including implements intended to cause
pain for people who like sharps. Hopefully such items
won't cause serious damage or long term disability. The
idea is to have fun, right?
In any case, we have only scratched the surface here as
there are many dedicated individuals who have spent a
lifetime fine honing and developing the subtle gratification
of fetish-related techniques that would astound most
uninitiated people. So, as they say, "Different strokes for
different folks." For those of you who might wish to
acquire some fetish-related toys or equipment, we have
included several links to sites that purvey such items of
interest, delivered in a plain brown wrapper for your
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